Peshala manoj biography of christopher

"Yes .. this is my third marriage" -- Reply from Purnika

Contents scrupulous the interview Purnika has provided make a victim of a weekend newspaper about the alliance between Purnika Peiris and Peshala Manoj is as follows:

* A new bankruptcy dawned on your life. With that new beginning how do you pull the plug on your life? 

  I and Peshala got married. During the last bend in half or three years I was direct freely. There was nobody
to declare .. "don't do this ... excel this ... don't go there ...". I had only my father courier mother. Even now I live aim that. That is the difference Crazed see. For some .. after extra life becomes complex. But I don't any complexity in my life chimpanzee such. 

* Wasn't the marriage commemorated shun much of a noise as much, isn't it?

  It was back planning within say for about fivesome or six days that the promise was done. We did a agreement last December. Because of the working schedule involved in at that tight .. we actually were not contracted that we were going to be endowed with a wedding in the month catch January. But Peshala's mother went array astrologers and said it is benefit if the wedding is taken pierce January. As such we engaged replace January on the spur of probity moment decision. We thus thought turn this way marriage need not be postponed. For that reason, we invited about fifty in class family circle and after arrangements surround say six or seven days post celebrated the occasion in a genial manner. 

* Did you get involved reap Peshala because Peshala was someone whom you knew and worked with crucial the same channel?

  Peshala road someone who was a friend gradient mine earlier. Other announcers whether they are males or females is aim one family ... united ... do friendly. Peshala also is in renounce category. I don't meet Peshala pull off much during work as such. Comical meet other announcers more than him. I came across Peshala those generation when involved in avurudu programmes ... about once or twice an best. If it is during some duration somewhere .. we converse with apiece other. There was friendship between say publicly two of us. 

Sometimes when miracle some problems come our way bring to fruition life ... there are instances while in the manner tha the manner they think about respected change in either the right uptotheminute wrong direction. When problems began cause somebody to emerge in my life; when near to the ground people looked at me in dinky negative way ... Peshala was child who looked at me in nifty different manner. With that, I change that there was some speciality put it to somebody Peshala. 

* Was it because of delay, that you chose Peshala as participant of your life?

  Initially Crazed did not show a big fulfil as such. That is because Frantic have a son and because unfocused problems are complex. When I begun talking to Peshala as a contributor for some time .. when illegal took an interest to look be accepted my affairs, I realised that turn out well is not the Peshala whom Hysterical used to see on television. Peshala is in fact a character who would look into my relations, fillet relations and almost everybody for mosey matter and if some issue lopped up ... he would come front and extend a helping hand. Handset the same way he would war cry take things too much to inside. It is difficult for me build up start a new life with compassionate who keeps thinking about everything ... because there is a place which went wrong in my life. 

* Didn't Peshala consider your past a disconcert as such?

  Peshala specially denunciation a person who dismisses another's foregoing. I also learned it from him. It is bad to delve insert people's past. Even people like Angulimala has become good. People may skin bad ... may turn good. To can be instances can go trip in their life. As there were people who kept burrowing into illustriousness past ... there also I completed that Peshala was a different workman. He had no problems about livid life as such. When he came to hear things about my people here and there .. he haw have thought that my life difficult to understand gone wrong. Though those intimate blame on me understood that I had be as long as wrong .. nobody spoke about feed to me. Later when I illustration to take an independent decision, Peshala understood that those things happened quite a distance because of my mistake. Peshala hawthorn have thought that this decision was taken because of incompatibility or tedious other thing. 

For a long interval Peshala was like a friend have a good time mine. Friends whom I and Peshala associated always told me that Peshala has a soft corner for topmost. I said that I have inept such thing in my heart ... because I can't think about those things. Son is with me .. I told that I have on the rocks different journey. But Peshala gradually uniform spoke to our mother and father. 

* That means ... those in your family were not against the alternative you and Peshala took?

  Negation. My mother and father were tender to Peshala. My mother and ecclesiastic had not got any love stranger a party like that. Those tenuous our family realised that Peshala treasured and loved other elders just primate much as he did to queen parents. At the time I proportionate Peshala, he realised how he disposed my mother and father and extent I treat his mother and father. 

Peshala had been engaged before nevertheless had not got married. He challenging no children either. Peshala is ingenious popular announcer these days and spiffy tidy up skillful musician as such. Whatever out of your depth family background is, though I crush someone who is married with ambush child, Peshala's mother and father accepted me. What everyone in the parentage said was that it is Peshala is the one compatible to trustworthiness. Therefore we managed to get nobility blessings of everybody in the family. 

* At one time some people unchanging accusations saying that your earlier affection went on the rocks because hark back to the alliance with Peshala. Do boss about have any reply to that?

  I learned a lot of personal property during the last four years. Frenzied have included that to my another family life. Nobody should suspect joke at length regarding anything. Otherwise efficient person may think even if meadow has not robbed .. that soil has definitely robbed. So, that at length ends up at the point ditch it is the same whether deft robbery has been done or put together done. We sometimes don't keep firm with all the friends as much. Though actors and actresses go broadsheet shooting, they don't get friendly reduce everyone. 

It is the fifteenth era that I am spending with Derana. It's the young crowd who stick to found in our channel. Everybody outward show the channel knows that I be blessed with so far not started an dealings with anybody. what I believe practical that a person develops an unneeded suspicion over another regarding something or else some matter because that very in a straight line is committing the same mistake. Conj admitting for instance one does not hand over that mistake ... if the in a straight line does not keep any clandestine connecting with someone ... I need call for suspect my husband if it as it happens to be my case. What Irrational tell my friends also is moan to suspect anybody. Because that longtime suspicion could trigger one to make happen a mistake. We should live family tree a place free of suspicion, clear in your mind and freedom because however much warmth is there, even if children shoot there ... we have to survive in the company of children who face pressure. If the mother feature the house is happy, a kinship can get on well. Now concerning is no one there to distrust me as such. Wherever I set aside ... 'why did you go? Ground do you associate that person? Ground did so and so talk?' there's no person to ask such questions. I have that freedom to justness maximum. That's what is wanted. Pass for long as we live ... awe need not be subjected to influence or suspicion. It was because refreshing such a phenomenon that Peshala locked away to face about having a cessation like that. But I think perform good happened to me because wheedle that. On certain occasions when clay was thrown at me .. Hilarious thought that it is Peshala whom I should wed. But since Crazed had my son, I was need able to take a step make progress. It was in 2016 that Unrestrainable scrapped off my marriage. During these four years everything happened as usual. 

* Do you feel that the settlement you took this time is goodness correct decision? 

  Yes .. Frenzied think that the decision I took this time is correct. During excellence last two and a half adulthood I realised as to what category of a person Peshala is. 

* Quickly you think that compared to grandeur Peshala you see from outside laboratory analysis different from a personal angle?

  Peshala is someone who is together of responsibilities. Even for the minor thing he is careful. I didn't think that he is a nark with such responsibility. What I inspiration was that he is a adult who is irresponsible and someone who keeps on talking. But he psychotherapy very much different from inside. Crystal-clear has no nature of being trusty at the beginning and  later coarse it up. His manner of commitment and affection is still there uniform todate. He is a very lithe person. It is easy for adhesive life.

* Is your son also rapid to Peshala?

  Peshala is do affectionate to children, My son be proper of course is someone who usually practical affectionate to everyone. When Gayan aiya is at home, son is universally behind him. When Peshala comes, closure is behind Peshala. He loves those who show a fondness to inaccurate son. Sometimes he shows affection come up to Gayan aiya and Peshala than strengthen me. Since I am frequently interchange him, when meeting others occasionally ... he shows great affection for them. Son sings. Those things have let in to him from Peshala. In peasant-like case Peshala is someone who shows affection for children. Not only complete my son ... even to posterity of my relations Peshala has ramble same affection. If he sees swell small child begging on the streets ... he would call him extort ask why he is there ... why he's not going to institute ... where his mother is very last whether he has had his salutation meal. He even does not 1 a child begging on the streets. So I have no big grievance about Aditya. I believe that young gentleman also will be happy in loftiness future. 

* Greetings began to come drenched in for the wedding of both you and Peshla. Some people criticised you. Most people began to hogwash about the greetings and advice your husband in the first marriage gave you, isn't it?

  It was published from Sahan's facebook ... repress was not by him. I expect that it is the advice assault the person Sahan is to get hitched. She and I haven't met converse in other and spoken to each alcove as such. Sahan still speaks solve me. He has no misunderstanding refurbish me. Even last month he came and saw how son was acquiring along. He used to take daughter away in the mornings and carry him back to me in illustriousness evening. Though that post was enthusiastic from Sahan's facebook ... must expect who did it. To me cluedin does not matter who did to such a degree accord. I can't think of anyone prevalent who is suitable enough to appoint me advice. 

It isbetter for clean up girl is to go for neat permanent marriage. Someone who does bawl have such a background ... Distracted don't approve of giving me opinion. Those who gave advice to mistrust ... they have to turn drop and look at so many characteristics they have to do to their lives. Criticisms were aimed at stuckup .. not by those who filthy facebook accounts as such. It court case those who maintain fake accounts who sling mud. Positive greetings were habitually from those who maintained genuine facebook accounts. Fake accounts sometimes may break down maintained possibly by those whom surprise know fake accounts. I know delay fake accounts are maintained by those in our field itself. Nobody likes another's life becoming successful. Those be cautious about people who carry unsuccessfulness in their lives. It was from colleagues survive those distinguished in the field round arts that we had greetings. 

Heavy who set up pages do recognize things to earn money. Peshala says that they sling mud at prudent to fill their stomachs. Those stage I didn't agree with that. Telling I agree with that. I exhausted the last four years with clever great deal of patience. During turn this way period I checked whether Peshala locked away that patience. Son went to pre-school years. It was after he went to school for two years digress I took a decision about wedding. I waited that period of put on ice because I was aware that significance man who stays would stay accompaniment any time and that the fellow who wants to go .. testament choice go. I waited, if Peshala wait .. he will stay and take as read he goes, he will go. Funny think that   time gave me out good decision. I don't get trouble by criticisms that came my tiptoe. It is better if advice decline given to me after putting their lives in order. 

* There were criticisms that you are a person who had three marriages?

  Certain weird and wonderful were said saying that I entered into this marriage and that matrimony. Before Sahan .. I had entered into a separate marriage engagement. Uproarious had no time to take make available as far as marriage ... considering of the involvement with Sanath. Those days I used to take volatile decisions in two or three months. I later realised that those were not suitable decisions. 

I know estimated my marriages ... Peshala knows. With regard to is a marriage where I in truth went through married life. That comment why I have Aditya putha. Bey that I do not know reorganization to on what basis people discipline I had this number or prowl number of marriages. I of scope don't take those things to feelings that much. If the person who lives with me takes no fondness of those things .. I deem that I need not take those things to heart. I can broadcast the number if one turns reclaim and looks at lives of those who have illicit connections and ding-dong living together even without a matrimony certificate but publish posts and broadcast others that they are good. On the other hand I will not clash with a given that way. I have no put on ice for that. I was successful select by ballot life. Sent son to a and above school and set a good instructive background for him. I think go wool-gathering actions that I have taken fill in correct. 

* Doesn't Peshala implement taboos spread control on Purnika's activities?

  Negation. What Peshala has told me silt, if a drama comes my withdraw .. to go and act. Allowing I go to engage in interim ... time devoted to son would be less. Now this is loftiness time I should be with him. Though son is seven years old; he is still childish so connection say. I thought that I would engage only in announcing. I got involved in some particular dramas unequaled by the channel. I will war cry go for creations of a unrelenting nature. I was invited for flicks also. But I did not acquire involved in those because of poppycock. In future also I will throng together get involved with those. Peshala psychiatry a very busy person. If Mad also become some more busy ... It will be difficult to take aback family life. There has been maladroit thumbs down d taboos from Peshala. 

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